Fear of flying because of my size
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Fear of flying because of my size
| Wed, 02-23-2005 - 7:58pm |
I am new here and this is my first ever post...hope I am doing it right. I am 35 years old and about 360 pounds. I haven't flown anywhere in a long while (I was about 60 lbs lighter then) and now am getting pressure from my family to take a trip to Vegas with them. However, I watched an episode of Airport on A&E where I saw them take 2 extra large passengers on the plane and made them see if they could fit in the seat and get the seat belt buckled. There was one who couldn't and they made him buy a second seat before he could fly. Has anyone ever flown and had issues like this? I obviously don't want to get to the airport and have this happen...that would totally devastate me in front of family members who are already critical of my size. Any input would be greatly appreciated!! Thanks!!!

Hi Cynderella,
I'm new here too, only a couple of weeks on ivillage. I am almost 5'10" and currently am at about 375, so I understand your concern! I have never been asked to buy a 2nd seat, or to be measured. I travel for work at least twice a year, and when I book my flight, I am very honest and tell them I am a large person. I ask to be put on a flight that is not crowded, and take a window seat. I have never once had someone take the middle seat! Of course, the perfect answer is go first class, if you can afford it. Or, if you really want to take the trip and can afford it (and there are some great sales, esp. if you book online) just get two seats and when you book just tell them they are both for you. Believe me, this is not an unusual situation for the airlines. One thing, though, you will have to ask for a seat belt extender. It is essential to your safety to be buckled in. I have found the more nonchalant I am about the whole thing, the more people act the same. If you act embarassed and ashamed, they will respond in kind. By the way, I have never been to Vegas, but my friends have gone and they all have said they had to do a LOT of walking. Some of the hotels are so huge you can get worn out just getting to the lobby! So keep that in mind-you may have no problems with the flight but hate the actual visit!
Good luck!
dogbooks
I have never flown anywhere....but I hope I never have to be faced with that situation. But you got some really good advise....I am going to keep it in my back pocket for when and if I ever fly.
Good Luck with the Las Vegas thing be sure to post the ending of this story if you go.
Sussie_Q