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| Tue, 06-07-2005 - 8:57am |
I am asking for someone to kicx me in the you know what and give my head a shake...
I have been a real slacker for 2 weeks - no exercise ,no eating regimen, no loss no gain.
Just bummed out. Summer is practically here and all I see when I pick up my kids are slim
mom's in their little shorts and tops with tans and I stand there in t shirts
and capris trying to look good but being the fat mom who is just trying to look good.
People sometimes say- you look so nice and pretty all the time - and I say out of habit
yah not bad for a fat chick - automatically. My self esteem is down and I can't get it up
I'm in trouble here. I wish we were in Greek times where beautiful women were large and
voluptuous ...At least I would not be called a fat cow there.... Claudette

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Hang in there! I know that you can do it, and here's your <<<<<<<>>>>>>> in the you know what to get you jump started. I know that sometimes it seems like no one else struggles with their weight, but look at how many of us are here on this board! More people are overweight than are skinny, so, please, know that you are not the only one out there. It's so very hard for anyone to have a healthy self-esteem in this day and age, and the only thing I can say is just keep working at it. Next time someone says that you look nice, just say "thanks". I know it's hard to do, but every small step you take toward being a better, healthier you is one in the right direction. And, even if you can only take a small step every day, in a year, you would have 365 of them and be a heck of a lot closer to a better you. I read an article the other day talking about weight loss, and how 1 lb a week often seems like it isn't enough, but if you stick with it for a year, that's 52 lbs gone. When I read that I thought "that's so simple, yet so hard to accept". I know that when things aren't happening as fast as I would like, I sometimes get discouraged and give up, and now I want to kick myself because if I hadn't given up all those times before, I would be at my goal weight and then some by now. Oh well, what's done is done and I know that I have to move on to reach my goals.
I know that you can do this if you just stick with it. Before you know it, you will be like one of those "skinny" moms, but you'll probably feel better about yourself than most any of them, because you will appreciate your body with all it's flaws and have the pride in knowing how hard you worked to get it the way it will be!
Staci
Claudette....Im also hanging out in the capris this year and you know what, its ok.
Here's a big kick for you Claudette!