I sure didn't mean to offend....

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Registered: 06-29-2005
I sure didn't mean to offend....
Sat, 07-16-2005 - 12:56pm
My post of trying to understand unsupportive spouses was not meant to offend anyone. I am trying to understand where these ladies are coming from so I can offer better support. It's easy for me to give a, "hey, hang in there", or a "keep on the bandwagon". Those are pat answers. To really offer someone support, I want to feel where they are expressing themselves from so my support is meaningful for them. I hurt for women who have the negativeness at home, but I sure don't judge them. I'm glad women vent here and I respect everyone's opinions and vents, whether I agree with them or not. For all who are upset over my previous post (Dawn, you are the only one who let me know you were upset, though I'm sure there are others), I am truly sorry. That was not my intent but I am glad you expressed how you felt about that.
Kristi :o) <><