Do you feel sexy?

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Do you feel sexy?
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Tue, 09-27-2005 - 4:40am

OK.. things have been a little slow in here lately, so I thought I might stir things up a little..

I know it's a pretty sensitive issue to talk about, but I also know it does pass our mind once in a while. I've seen hints about how we think of our sexuality in posts here and there, but we haven't really talked about it.

So? Shall we start a discussion?
Do you think your weight affects your sex life?

Mary
247/222/165

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Registered: 08-03-2005
Sat, 10-01-2005 - 3:07am

Girl I LOVE when women hit on my SO. He is a HUGE flirt and sometimes really doesn't know when women are serious. I love a little competition! : )

Really -- except when I am pregnant. I freaked out the other night because he put his arm around OUR good friend. LAST pregnancy -- ha, we had a bunch of female friends. All single.. attractive... most of them younger than me.. yeah I woke up MANY times in the middle of the night after CRAZY dreams about him and them -- crying -- telling him about the dream .. freakin' out.

None of those dreams this time! THANK YOU!!!!!!

Still some issues though -- when not pregnant. A 5'8" 130lbs size 30 DD red head == could hit on my SO and I would just SMILE at her. Thinking the whole time "Honey, you couldn't handle him!!!" (I'm not talkin' sexual -- I just have a difficult man -- which is perfect since I'm difficult!)

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Registered: 08-03-2005
Sat, 10-01-2005 - 3:10am

I have to admit that I use to have the same issue about him not wanting as much as me. Funny thing -- that was back when I was thin. Well thinner than I am now. Ha ha! I decieded one day -- quality over quantity!!!

I am with an older man too -- so I think that is part of it sometimes. I'm coming into my "peak" in a few years -- and his was like 20years ago! Ha ha ha.

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Registered: 09-16-2005
Sat, 10-01-2005 - 1:35pm

I know that one!! My ex boyfriend was 41 and I was 27 and he NEVER wanted it. Shoot we had it like 2-3 times a month!! Now with my man I get it once a day 2-3 times everytime :-O

Theresa




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Registered: 08-03-2005
Sat, 10-01-2005 - 5:17pm

WOW! I even think 2-3 times a month is great!! I don't know how you can find energy/time for more than that. Especially with 7 kids!! I only have 4!!

When I get home from work, if I get home in time for family dinner that is first. I miss dinner if I go to the gym after work. If I go to the gym I don't get home until 8.

We do watch tv at night. My younger kids go to bed at 9 and from like 9 -11 is "no kid time". (Even when my older son is out here it still feels like "kid free" time)

I don't get done "downloading" from work until about 11 -- then I'm usually too tired to have sex.

I'm not a huge tv person -- but CSI & all the Law & Orders are my escape from work. That is also the time I try to sneak in computer time.

Sex is reserved for Saturday/Sunday night -- or those rare weekdays we aren't timed. Usually if I have had an easy day at work then my SO has had a hectic day at home. He is a stay at home Dad.

I will say though -- when we do it we do it right!!!!! : ) We've had lame sex before -- but only like 1 to every 20 times we have sex. Sometimes I don't mind lame sex, again I might be tired to move!!! Heeheee

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