cant control my emotions or my weight
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cant control my emotions or my weight
| Mon, 07-10-2006 - 8:47pm |
i cant control my emotions the guy i like is leaving the countary i wont meet him cause im fat im going to lose him forever im devastated i keep eating im losing it everything is shattering im lost cant lose weight i eat eat eat im stressed out if he doesnt respond or talk to me or ignore me a bit i get devastated my mind is occupid with him all the time whats wrong with me i gained 30lbs thinkning about him and now cant lose it and cant even show him my face helppppp

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You can do this, but do it for yourself not some guy, cuz if the guy don't like/love you for you, then you don't need him anyways!!! I hope you feel better!! I don't know what other advice I can offer you!
Angela
Angela
Angela is right. Do it for YOU! It will NEVER work, if you are doing it for someone else. It sounds like you are medicating yourself with food, and that's common! Try to focus, and tell yourself that you ARE in control of what you are eating. No one is forcing it down your throat. Go for a walk when you have cravings, or listen to music.
I don't think that I would settle for someone that didn't love and accept me at every stage of my life. Relationships aren't always movies, and music. There can be some nasty things thrown at you. They are hard, and if you don't feel you can lay everything out there, and be accepted, you are just setting yourself up for an unhappy relationship, an unhappy life.
Embrace your beautiful self, and know that whoever loves you, will be SOOOO freakin lucky to have you!
Tami
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Can you please change your screen name? You can't expect others to see
Misha
I personally think it is hard to give advice knowing so little about you, so why don't you start by telling us a little about you? Maybe if we knew a little more about you, we could give you better tips!!
Angela
Angela
this hour ddint get any feeling of interest from him im devasted till the next time i talk to him
NO put down the bread. I am glad I couldn't sleep and decided to check in. Please don't do this to yourself over some guy. They are sooo not worth it. Believe me I love em as much as the next gal but if he doesn't like you for you, then hon, he really isn't worth it. It sounds like maybe your life really is upside down, and ya know what, a guy ain't gonna fix it. You have to do that for yourself. Trust me, been there done that. The guys never fixed the problems I had with me, I had to do that on my own! Now I am not knocking online romance by no means, that is how I met my husband after all, BUT there has to be some limitations as to what you allow yourself to do here. I mean, you don't sound very big, from the stats you gave, and if he wants skin and bones, then he will be wanting for a while if you ask me. There aren't too many girls out there like that no more. MOst guys I know, actually prefer a little meat on those bones!! KWIM?
Okay so you want to meet this guy? Then meet him, but don't kill yourself trying to lose weight for him. That isn't worth it. You say you were just talking to him and maybe he doesn't like you as much as you thought, well why do you say that??
Angela
Angela
I wondering since your binges seemed to be centered around simple carbs. Do you know that eating large amounts of simple carb like that releases chemicals in your brain, the same way a mild anti-depressant does? What you are really doing is self medicating yourself. you've become addicted to the that jump in chemicals in your body.
Perhaps seeing a counselor might help,talk to them to about your binging on high carb foods, they might want to put you on a mild anti-depressant. maybe with that in your system, calming you down, and mellowing your mood swings, you won't need to binge.
Anyway I think seeing a therepist is a good idea. You said you were going to school, I'm sure there is a campus counseling center. You might want to talk to them.
Sara
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