Frustrated with myself today!
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Frustrated with myself today!
| Tue, 09-05-2006 - 8:30pm |
All weekend I did nothing but eat and today wasn't any better. My nerves are on end. I am Bipolar (manic-depressive) and I have only been sleeping about 3-4 hrs a night since Friday. I went and talked to this really cute guy (that I have an interest in) at church. He was so nice and he was encouraging me to go to a special thing for our age group. I ended up not going because I was supposed to spend the night at my Gram's. Anyway, he is very nice, very tall (I'm 5'11" so this is a good thing), stable and a gentleman(unlike my ex-husband). This is the first time since I've gotten divorced almost three years ago that I have even felt an attraction for another man. I have lost alot of weight (he didn't know me back before I started losing weight). Even though I have lost almost 90 lbs., I am still a really big girl. I doubt that he would even consider being romantically involved with someone like me. Everytime I see him I almost ask him out but, as usual my weight holds me back. Plus, I would just die if he said he was already dating someone and he couldn't. I would have to see him every week then. What should I do? If I was manic, I would have already asked him out and kissed him by now! When I'm manic, I feel sexy, confident, funny (or atleast I think I am at the time), high-energy (and I mean HIGH!) and only need about an hour of sleep at night to keep going. I don't think I have ever asked out a man in my entire life. Any love advice out there for us big girls?


Wohooo!! Love is in the air!
OK here's me: I am a bit old fashioned when it comes to dating so I wouldn't probably ask him for a date that early on.. I like to get to know him first.. a bit casual you know.. go to this or that meeting & all.. then start to
Well...
I think everyone is right get to know him a little better. Go to some of the meeting and talk to him . Like Kimberly said causally ask if he ever brings his girlfriend and then you know which direction to go.
In my opinion if a guy doesn't like cause of your weight then he's not really worth it. He should like you for you. Best of luck :o)
Cat