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Fri, 12-08-2006 - 3:53pm

Hi all. I am new here to this room and have never even lurked here before. Anyway I am looking for a little support as i go thru the weightloss process. I have a supportive husband and that's about it. I was so focused on trying to conceive I totally put loosing weight on the back burner but here I am now with no children because of miscarriages and alot of xtra weight. I was obese even before i began ttc. So anyway I am currently riding a bike 5 miles a day. Any advice on what I may be able to try?

I can also give more info if needed on my situation.

Thanks all!!

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Registered: 01-25-2006
In reply to: angie200443402
Sun, 12-10-2006 - 3:59pm

Don't feel bad about feeling like that, cuz I can understand that resentment. It would have to be hard. I tell dh all the time, that I feel guilty having been so upset when we have 2 friends that can't concieve. 1 has been trying for about 10 yrs, she finally has given up due to health issues that would make pg difficult, and the other had a miscarriage last year and is now having trouble concieving again, so yea I feel guilty having been so blessed at times even though I know they don't begrudge me my kids. So don't feel bad, just know that you had a realization that helped you deal with it. I would probably feel the same as you did if the roles were reversed.


The mil though would make me hot too. HOW DARE SHE?? It wasn't her choice to make and she needs to grow up. IF my MIL EVER accused me of cheating on my dh it would have been ON. Or if she ever wished harm to my child, born or unborn, it would be ON. Please at least tell me he has stood up for you?? Dh and I have had some struggles with his family and friends as well. They didnt' want me in the picture and it took 6 yrs to calm down, so maybe just maybe things will get better, but if not, just try to be the bigger person, and remember that is his mother!!! You don't have to like her but unfortunately she is a part of him. Best of luck with the whole situation!

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Registered: 02-06-2006
In reply to: angie200443402
Mon, 12-11-2006 - 7:50am

I haven't officially welcomed you to the board, so Welcome aboard!


I've also been through a recent

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Registered: 02-06-2006
In reply to: angie200443402
Mon, 12-11-2006 - 8:03am

>>>>Fact is this is a hard reality to deal with, and it is hard to deal with not being able to get pg. I only did it for a year and it almost drove me to the breaking point and I almost took dh with me. He literally told me he could not and would not try anymore at that time because I was too obsessed with it<<<


I'm there now.. going nuts.. 3 months and counting

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Registered: 03-26-2003
In reply to: angie200443402
Mon, 12-11-2006 - 9:31am
Hi Angie, Sorry I missed your post somehow. A belated welcome to you. While I don't know the heartache of miscarriage I spent years ttcing and went through years of infertility treatment and seveal failed IVFs. People said stupid and insensitive things to us DAILY--including doctors if you can believe it--that nearly drove me insane. Hang in there! Annie
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Registered: 01-25-2006
In reply to: angie200443402
Mon, 12-11-2006 - 9:54am
Have you spent money on ovulation kits and pg tests every month yet??? LOL I bet I spent enough to buy a new appliance in that year. LOL Yea I really drove him nuts with it!! The whole feet up in the air and everything. LMAO it is funny when you finally succeed and look back at it but it isn't funny at the time, you will try ANYTHING just to get pg.

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