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Tue, 02-13-2007 - 1:03pm

rains?????

This whole month has been completely insane... Here is a recap

on the same day... I got a notice that my license was suspended for a ticket from 1997!!! That I still don't even remember. Kicker is it was for only $38.00! That very night, my car got repo'd. and I had to leave for the airport the next morning to go away for business meetings, ended up having to take a cab.

Got to the airport, and they almost didn't let me on the plane, because my DL picture and I don't look at all the same anymore since the weight loss.

More work piled into my everday work at my job as a result of the meetings.

Came home, got my license worked out, borrowed money from my girlfriend and bought an OLD used car.

You guys remember I'm dating? One that I really liked quit talking to me for no aparent reason, (and yes they all know I date multiple) So I was kinda hurt, cause if he had just asked then I would have dated him exclusively... but he didn't... I was hurt so my judgement was skewed and I went out with the lawyer I was dating... well... I have bruises from an assault, cause I wouldn't sleep with him... Long story, don't really want to go into further, and no, I'm not going to the police. I would just rather forget it.

My son, is having bully trouble at school, and it's killing me!!! I finally told him that he could curse at the bully (cause the bully cusses at him and my son is too concerned with being good all the time and wouldn't cuss back until I gave him permission) This has been going on since September, and he won't let me call the school. I have talked to the teacher, and they do punish the kid, but it doesn't help... So I just told him since the guy was a peabrain, to cuss back, flip him the bird and walk away... good parenting skills, huh? I just don't know what else to do, and my son needs to feel that he is empowered and that kid is stripping him of that.

I have a sinus infection and just got a visit from Aunt Flo

I am struggling MAJOR time with food!!! omg - you have no idea. I want to pig out and go into a coma that lasts five months, lol.

Anyway... I'm back into the 230's, and I could cry - I have not lost an ounce and gained some back since this all started. I am at 231 this morning... the end of Jan I had gotten to 229. :(

I will catch up on the posts, when I can, I just wanted to check in with you all, and let you know i MISS YOU!

~ Kim

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Registered: 01-25-2006
Tue, 02-13-2007 - 1:13pm

WOW you have had a rough time!! I wish you would go to the police but I know nothing I say will change your mind. It irks me that someone who is supposed to be help protecting the law is breaking it though.


I hope to goodness things start going better for you soon. You are in my thoughts.


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Registered: 03-26-2003
Tue, 02-13-2007 - 1:34pm
((((KIM)))) You must be so exasperated from all of this. Please hang in there and take care of yourself and your son! You know that you'll end up laughing about the license things some day--especially since they didn't recognize you in the photo. Huge proof of the really GOOD things that are going on for you. I'm so sorry to hear about that pig of a man. Like Angela, I wish you would report that slime but I won't lecture. Take care sweetie, and don't sweat those couple of pounds. xxoo Annie
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Tue, 02-13-2007 - 11:12pm

i'm sorry to hear you've had such a crappy month.. I hope things take a turn for the better ASAP

Sara
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Registered: 02-06-2006
Mon, 02-19-2007 - 7:29am

I just came across this post now, so sorry for the late reply.


First off, I am glad you passed by, you were very missed. I hope everything settles down and we see more of you around here.


I am sorry you're passing through all these horrible events, but at least look at the bright side. You got your liscense suspended because of a ticket back from 1997, I know it's not funny right now, but it would make a great joke later, wouldn't it?


Also the passport thing is actually AWESOME!! You lost so much weight that nobody could tell it was you. I know how much that should've been a pain at that moment, but hey, it IS a great affirmation of how much you changed.. and is changing. I bet this event will be a good reminder to you when you feel you're struggling on your weight loss.


Praying that everything calms down soon. And hoping to hear from you very soon.

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