Husband Has Moved Out

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Husband Has Moved Out
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Thu, 05-24-2007 - 12:27pm

Ok I know this is a board ment for weightloss but I feel as though you guys are some of my only friends that are going thru this same journey as I am. I am sorry to bother you with my problems and feeling but I just need to vent.

Here goes.......my husband has moved out. He left for work yesterday and then didn't come home during his hour lunch period. I wasn't to worried because when they are short staffed he doesnt have the time to leave me a message let alone come home. So then he didn't come home after work either......i said thats ok he may have went to the gym as he sometimes does without me. He always says its cuz he has a difficult time focusing when he's watching me. So after what seems like millions of calls to his cell which he didn't bother to answer or return I went to bed alone, woke up alone, and still no answer from him. Called his work today and he did show up there so I know he's not off dead somewhere.............but man I'm angry. So angry and hurt that I already have ate an entire gallon of icecream that I had to walk to the carryout in town to buy. Which was a 5 mile walk each way. I just feel so down and out right now and I have no one to talk to about this issue. We hadn't even been arguing lately so this is totally out of the blue.

GRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRR.

Thanks for listening.............Angie

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Thu, 05-24-2007 - 1:14pm

(((((Angie))))), I'm so sorry.

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Thu, 05-24-2007 - 1:15pm

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Thu, 05-24-2007 - 3:23pm
WoW!! I mean seriously, leaving without even telling you. No wonder you are so upset. Hon I am so sorry. I would demand he at least explain himself to you. I mean you must've been worried sick last night. I don't know how you slept. Sending lots of hugs your way......

 

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Thu, 05-24-2007 - 4:17pm


(((HUGS)))

Angie I am so sorry! We are here for you whenever you need us!! It sounds like this took you completely by surprise. You are definitely in our thoughts, and I hope you guys can hopefully meet somewhere and talk about this. You have a right to be treated with more respect!! We're here if you need a listening ear.

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Thu, 05-24-2007 - 6:01pm
Oh sweetie I'm so sorry. Big hugs.

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Registered: 05-08-2006
Thu, 05-24-2007 - 9:26pm

Angie,
(((HUGS)))

Please do not punish yourself by eating crap you do not want just because some man is behaving like a ..... It will not make him feel bad, only you.

I have absolutely no good relationshp advice...all I can say is be good to yourself.

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Sun, 05-27-2007 - 3:08pm

I'm so sorry. Hopefully he will be "man" enough to at least talk to you to tell you what is going on in his head to make him think it is ok to just walk out.

sometimes men can be so stupid.

I'll be thinking of you.. and as good as that ice cream tastes right now.. put it aside.. It will won't make you feel better.

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Sun, 05-27-2007 - 5:09pm

Angie

(((BIG HUGS)))

This is a support board. We are here to support each other through all sorts of life's struggles.

I am so sorry to hear that he dropped such a bomb on you. I would demand an explanation as well! But use those strong feeling for good not evil and try that walk in the other direction. ;-) (With out the ice cream at the end.) Easier said than done I know!! I feel your pain and wish you the strength to get through this. But think about you and who suffers when we take out our frustrations on ourselves. we do. so be strong and take care of yourself!

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Wed, 05-30-2007 - 11:43am

Well thank you for your letter and the icecream only added to the problem because I felt bad for eating it even thou it tasted so good. Anyhow my husband is now home and we are working thru the issue. I found out the day after he left that I am expecting a baby long story short i had i.v.f and had the appt. the day after he left to see if the procedure worked...........now how well did it work 1,2or3 babies is the question. He was worried that he would not be any better a father than his own and was worried about the influence that his family will have on our new family. Guess I can understand that knowing his family and he just wanted me to cut my losses. Hmmmmmmmmmmmmm.

I am back on track thou and ready to go of course with a few changes like no more strenght training for one and shorter less intense workouts for the other.

Thanks again!!

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Wed, 05-30-2007 - 11:45am
Thanks for the post he is back now and was concerned how my pregnancy and the children may be affected by the way his family relates with us and the type of father he had. He said he just got scared and had wanted me to cut my losses............Hmmmmmmm. Hopefully with some communication and a little luck we'll be able to move on from the insecurities.

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