How do you improve communication?
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|Tue, 05-19-2009 - 6:57pm|
I seem to be having trouble with communicating.
I just am always at a loss for the right words and end up saying something similar to what I meant.
Like when someone was talking about how it's not good to hide emotions, especially when your angry.
And I was agreeing and said "Yeah like you shouldn't keep it buried"
And what I meant to say (cause it was what I was thinking)
was "Yeah like you shouldn't keep it all bottled up inside"
That's more clear :)
The thing is I think before I speak, and I'm thinking as I speak, so it's creating obstacles to hurdle through when I'm communicating.
So forget doing "successful" job interviews ;)
This topic may not be relevant to this board, but I see "writing" and "communicating" in the same family.
They both require a lot of "thought."
So if you have any advice for me to improve this problem, please share. I don't think it's my lack of vocabulary.
Although there are some words I haven't heard of before.
But I think it's more of a process of having to clear your mind.
And be more "simple" minded.
Maybe if I did an exercise to increase my communication, something where the words I'm thinking of come right to me.
Do you think it has something to do with memory?
I'm sick of this "tip of the tongue" talking, and I can't rely on writing/typing everything out, so please help :)