An appoligy

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An appoligy
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Fri, 10-03-2003 - 11:28am
Just wanted you to know I was sorry if I came across mean yesterday. That was never my intensions. Its been a fustrating couple of weeks for me. I feel stressed, upset, and discouraged. Everyone here seems to keep an up beat attitude, and for the life of me I wish I could too. I am not giving up my dream of loosing this weight or of being a healthier person. Just these past few weeks the dream has been tossed aside. I have been having horrible fights with Katie in the mornings, before school. Falling behind on my house work and reponsiblities. This class which takes up 3 hours of my morning is so hard to learn. I feel exhusted and can not drag myself up any earlier to get a workout in. Just do not know where to turn. Things will smooth out soon, just being patient and waiting is something else. But the last thing I want is for you wonderful ladies to be angry with me. I need to try to feed off your positive energy's not be jelous of it. Hope you all understand and just dismiss my rant as Aunt Flo's revenge, because she hit me this week, stronger then ever too.

Deb

Debbie

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Registered: 03-26-2003
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Fri, 10-03-2003 - 11:35am
It just sounded to me as though you needed a little breathing room for a while. I hope things ease up for you soon.

Hugs,

Rhonda

       ~~Rhonda~~


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Fri, 10-03-2003 - 11:42am
Oh and one more thing. My car broke down last Thursday. Told hubby somthing was not right. Came out of the grocery store to nothing. I blew the head gaskets, which means major engine work. And hubby is to busy to do it, so now I am using my parents extra car.

Deb

Debbie

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Fri, 10-03-2003 - 12:32pm
Deb - We all thought you had totally freaked out and were running through the streets screaming and waving your arms with the men in the white coats in close pursuit....

No, we didn't. And we didn't think you we're being mean. If you're feeling overwhelmed, it's time to step back and reassess. Family, home and school - in that order. Just don't lose yourself in all of it and come back to the rest when you can. We're part of the rest.

Take care of yourself - and BREATHE!!!

Donna

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Fri, 10-03-2003 - 12:46pm
You know a short time ago I read a post that made me stop and think"how the heck does she do it all?"It was from a women who has 3 kids, helps her husband, is going to school and exercising.Sound familar???Give yourself credit for all you do.Give it time and it will fall into place.It may be that right now for you exercise is not a priority and that is fine.We still want to hear from you about anything you want to post about.

Miss P




 

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Fri, 10-03-2003 - 4:07pm

Deb-


I didn't think you came across mean at all.

Live With Passion!

Phyllis