Three wishes....
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| Mon, 12-22-2003 - 7:21am |
1. May you become an expert at receiving help. Over the next several
days, when you catch yourself saying things like: "No thanks, I can do
these dishes myself," or, "That's okay, I don't need any help with gift
wrapping," or "Yes, I know you have an idea for how to make my life
easier, but I've always done it this way . . . ", stop, take a deep breath
and listen. Then, say something like: "Yes, I'd love help with the
dishes, it might be fun," or "Of course you can wrap these gifts with me,"
and "Thank you for caring about my life, tell me more . . ." One of the
greatest gifts we give to others is our willingness to let them give to
us.
2. May you become masterful at being lazy. Now, if after reading the
last line you thought "I couldn't possibly be lazy, it's irresponsible or
impossible," I am *definitely* talking to you! Over the next ten days do
something to relax your body and rest your brain. For example, sleep an
hour or two longer than you normally would, hang out in front of the
television watching movies all afternoon, or let the dishes sit on the
table long after the holiday meal is over so you can enjoy talking with
your guests. After all the hustle and bustle of the holidays, you've
earned the right to be lazy!
3. May you have the courage to be a risk-taker for love. During the
holidays many of us spend time with family and friends. This year take
some kind of risk to bring you closer to your loved ones. For example,
say "I love you" to someone you haven't said it to before. Ask aunt Mary
to tell you what it's like to be eighty years old. Take the time to find
out whether your grown children are content with their jobs, their
marriages, or their dreams. Worry less about what others might think and
more about how they feel.
If you master these three wishes you're sure to start the New Year with
less stress, more rest and a rich and grateful heart! Happy, Happy
Holidays!
Life Makeover For The Year 2003 (sm) is written and produced by Cheryl
Richardson. If you have any questions or comments, please send them
to:cheryl@cherylrichardson.com. Copyright 1999-2003, Cheryl Richardson.
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