Three wishes....

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Registered: 04-04-2003
Three wishes....
Mon, 12-22-2003 - 7:21am
This is from my Cheryl Richardson Life-Makeover weekly e-mail:

1. May you become an expert at receiving help. Over the next several

days, when you catch yourself saying things like: "No thanks, I can do

these dishes myself," or, "That's okay, I don't need any help with gift

wrapping," or "Yes, I know you have an idea for how to make my life

easier, but I've always done it this way . . . ", stop, take a deep breath

and listen. Then, say something like: "Yes, I'd love help with the

dishes, it might be fun," or "Of course you can wrap these gifts with me,"

and "Thank you for caring about my life, tell me more . . ." One of the

greatest gifts we give to others is our willingness to let them give to

us.

2. May you become masterful at being lazy. Now, if after reading the

last line you thought "I couldn't possibly be lazy, it's irresponsible or

impossible," I am *definitely* talking to you! Over the next ten days do

something to relax your body and rest your brain. For example, sleep an

hour or two longer than you normally would, hang out in front of the

television watching movies all afternoon, or let the dishes sit on the

table long after the holiday meal is over so you can enjoy talking with

your guests. After all the hustle and bustle of the holidays, you've

earned the right to be lazy!

3. May you have the courage to be a risk-taker for love. During the

holidays many of us spend time with family and friends. This year take

some kind of risk to bring you closer to your loved ones. For example,

say "I love you" to someone you haven't said it to before. Ask aunt Mary

to tell you what it's like to be eighty years old. Take the time to find

out whether your grown children are content with their jobs, their

marriages, or their dreams. Worry less about what others might think and

more about how they feel.

If you master these three wishes you're sure to start the New Year with

less stress, more rest and a rich and grateful heart! Happy, Happy

Holidays!


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