Rhonda

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Registered: 02-08-2001
Rhonda
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Thu, 05-27-2004 - 6:33pm
Just wanted to let you know how sorry I am that things don't seem to be able to be resolved between you and Erin. I can only imagine your disappointment and hurt and really have no other words to console you. I just wanted to let you know that I'm thinking of you and hope that somehow you can come to terms with this disappointment. Thinking of you and sending lots of hugs to you.

Hugs,

Susan

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Registered: 03-26-2003
In reply to: bnl7953
Thu, 05-27-2004 - 6:48pm
Thanks so much for your post. I am just so tired of getting my hopes up and being disappointed. I just want the hurting to stop. Somehow I have to move on.

Rhonda


Time invested in improving ourselves cuts down on time disapproving of others.

       ~~Rhonda~~


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Registered: 04-06-2003
In reply to: bnl7953
Thu, 05-27-2004 - 6:58pm
I posted just about the same message on the thread of thankfuls. Hugs to you and I too am so sorry.

Deb

Debbie

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Registered: 01-03-2001
In reply to: bnl7953
Thu, 05-27-2004 - 9:56pm
Rhonda, I was also very sorry to read that post.Just want you to know you are in my thoughts and I am so very sorry for the hurt and pain you are suffering.

Miss P




 

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Registered: 02-27-2001
In reply to: bnl7953
Thu, 05-27-2004 - 10:13pm
Yes, you probably do have to move on but that doesn't keep it from hurting a lot.
Nancy

"Make Choices that bring you joy"  cl-Patty


 


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In reply to: bnl7953
Fri, 05-28-2004 - 12:53pm
I'm sorry to read that too. She's a grown woman, Rhonda, but still has a lot of growing up to do, apparently. There's no other way to explain this... vengeance she has on her heart.

What did one of my Mom friends say in a church gathering once? It hurts, but you have to die to it, nail it to the cross where Jesus hung, offering a much greater hope. Not easy, believe me I know. The only actions each of us have to account for are our own, and neither you nor Rob are responsible. Sounds like she's cutting him off, too, though she does e-mail him.

As long as she's looking only inward to herself, she can't broaden her scope. You're getting hurt, but her actions will follow and reflect on her, not you. I pray He'll raise up good Christian friends around her to counsel her that she needs to offer reconciliation, and she'll start wondering what's holding her back from enjoying Him here. Any regrets in the end will be hers to bear by her own choice.












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