Am I being punished??
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|Wed, 08-18-2004 - 6:21pm|
His violation of the protective order was in fact a VIOLATION,
and after submitting the written report,
and some interviews it seems we have a hearing scheduled for the violation,
Guess when it is scheduled for,
Yep! Thats right on my Birthday,
first thing in the morning,
I already dread having to deal with my family remembering my birthday,
but I know,
what day that is,
and he is probably loving,
it good bad or indifferently.
So Lilbit's dad aka "C-Block" calls me this morning
he starts whining and telling me he is in trouble and informs me there is a warrant out for his arrest.
Best information I could offer him was to turn himself in, he babbles about something possibly with his ex-psychotic-wife and her new squeeze, and he will try to find out what the charge is later.
the purpose of his call is he decided that if anything should happen to him he would like to know that he at least made sure he took care of lilbit for her first day of school.
Yeah okay whateverrrr!
He announces he will be by in an hour, I dont rush to get ready nor do I rush lilbit.
Remarkably he arrives within that hour!
So we are off go me, C-Block and lilbit, to the Mall,
Lilbit be-lines it to the Childrens Place,
and in a record 45 minutes we SCORE 6 interchangeable outfits for 110.00,
C-Block disappeared during this spree, he just gave me th 10spot and poof he was gone!
Lilbit later spyed him on a payphone,
so we wander the mall (he never offering to take one of the 2 heavy shopping bags I am swaddled with).
Alright fine I can do it myself,
Done plenty without him I can carry a couple heavy shopping bags,
but yall know what I mean its the principle,
I head to the drugstore for my oldest daughter, she needed a few things for my grandaughter, wipes, diapers yadda yadda!
While checking out the cosmetics lilbit comes saying "mommie, daddy says he needs 3 dollars,"
I say "Is that so!" I said "why did he send you to come get it where is he?"
she says "Oh! he is at T-Mobile" I speak no more!
C-Block was taking so long that I lugged the shopping bags and my new drugstore purchases back up a level to see what exactly he was doing in T-Mobile!
I walk over to him and ask him "did you send Rayna to me for 3.00??" my next question was going to be "Why?"
He claims he found an extra 10.00 in his wallet then he signs a form,
I ask him what are you doing?
He announces he is getting a phone,
I say Oh I see you are getting a new contract a new phone meanwhile I have ruined credit and NO PHONE because of you???
He asks me not to make a scene!
I say no more,
I go to a FYE and waste more time waiting for him and by two old cassettes from the 2.99 bin, he peeks his head into the store and I purchase my items and head for the car,
NOW HE WANTS TO HELP ME WITH MY BAGS!!
The silent treatment is now in full effect and I ignore him!
We get into his truck come home and now he wants to Kimi! Kimi! Kimi! me!
Hurled a few profanities, stooped to name calling.
He swears he will pay for the overcharges he made on my phone and he will pay for the cancellation yet he still has the phone and used it all the way up until the phone was disconnected.
What did I do to deserve this??
Is there a class I can take to learn how to be more savvy and not look like an complete idiot 90% of the time when it comes to men.
as I always so eleoquently say