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| Sat, 07-27-2002 - 5:58pm |
Finished packing his things.......3 trash bags....two boxes............(m)
man and I am tired. I started packing and cleaning things out since yesterday 11 a.m. and I finished at 1:30 a.m. Of course I was packing, throwing out old things, tearing up pictures, and making all the copies that I could. He came to get his truck and machinery and I am going to take the boxes and bags to the room outside where he can pick them up from there. He didn't make a scene just came and got his things and left. He had told me that he was going to leave me the van when we last talked but I am not sure about that. If I do keep it I want the title and the car keys that he has. I talked to the lady from DA and she told me that if I was planning to file for a divorce that the lawyer would have to handle the P.O. cause DA would have to be notified if process starts and they would drop the petition. I feel good but I am tired; I still need to move some things out. Mari
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In the days before I booted my Practice Husband (m)
I had this strange cleaning fit. I walked around picking things up, saying to myself "I'm lightening the load." Almost as though I were saying a Mantra. I got more stuff cleaned up and thrown up than I ever thought possible.
Be careful, OK? Don't see him alone. You're being very strong and doing well.
Take the strongest legal action you can, but get yourself free. That's the first, most important goal!
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((((((((((((BIG HUGS FOR YOU)))))))))))))))
big hugs for having the courage and conviction to get him out of your house....i wish i could do this but i just cant yet...soooooo many reasons why ...and yet i know they are all cop outs...but its coming i know it...i can feel it...and funny thing is i just spent the last 2 days doing the cleaning thing around the bedroom and downstairs closet...putting his shit aside and telling him it need to go else where..ive told him i wnated him out next paycheck...where he goes i dont care..i think he thinks im joking cause hes acting like none of it happened..it gonna be a rough 2 weeks thats for sure..then time for another major decision...you see last time i left a husband i had 5 kids....this time i have two more 4 & 3 so theres 7 i gotta try to gather the strenght for...im feeling a lil weak at this point but i know theres a good support system around me and abuse is abuse...no mattter how you look at it..weve been in counseling together for a while and i dont see things getting anything but worse and the verbal is sooooooooooo hard to overcome...i cant get his ugly words out of my head.....ive rambled enough im sorry to of done that.....love to you and good luck with your new begiining.....oksofineimnuts