What do you think guys need some opin...

What do you think guys need some opinions and maybe some advice Please read and help..(m)

When I started to write back to Patti I wrote about Dan and me briefly. We have been fighting ALOT latley but I know that he is going through a tough time latley,but I feel like he is taking it out on me. We argued last night again about how I feel worhtless to him and that I always feel like I disappoint him. He says I take everything to seriously and that I am paranoid and the I read into everything too much. Which I agree with to some degree. He said in an email in not so many words that it is hard when he comes home to split us his time between me and his family, but when we first met it was all about spending time with me. Now I know that he needs to see his family I am always the one who pushes that on him. He says that I am controlling over his time, but again before he wanted me to tell him when I wanted him to come home and stuff now it is not like that. Ugh men are so hard to understand. All I have asked of him is for him to start telling me how he feels because he has a REALLY HARD time with that. Last night he tells me that I always push that on him. I just want to understand him and understand what he thinks and feels is that so bad??? I could go on and on and on about this because it is a bit upsetting to me anyone have any advice?? Or any questions so you maybe able to give me some advice please let me know I am a bit disturbed about this..
HELP!!!
Beckie