Really bad day........

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Registered: 03-21-2007
Really bad day........
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Sat, 08-25-2007 - 1:35pm

hi,
Today started out ok,but got worse as the day went on.
ds was playing out when a boy from across the road hit him.he came and told me along with all his friends too.sorted it out,thought everything was ok,but no,ds comes in again to tell me the boy has hit him again and his mums friend,who lives next door but one is outside and wants to talk to me.
She starts shouting at ds so i said to her,this boy has hit ds twice now and if hes big enough to hit then hes big enough to get hit back.at this point she starts to shout at ds and he got really,really angry with her,clenching his fists and chasing after her,and shes still shouting at him,i managed to calm him down and get him in the house,but not before everyone on the street had seen what had gone on.
ds has been around to apolgise but this lady is not the most pleasant of people and i dont want to have to explain what pdd nos is to her,she wouldn't have a clue,btw her son sometimes plays out with ds and he can bully ds sometimes,so to tell her about ds could cause alot of problems.
He has been grounded for the day,and we've had a long talk, but i just don't know how to sort this one out.
I feel like crawling into a big hole and not coming out.
Yvonne xxx

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Registered: 09-10-2004
Sat, 08-25-2007 - 1:45pm
Sweetie, I'm sorry you're having such a rough day!
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Registered: 11-28-2006
Sat, 08-25-2007 - 4:38pm

{{{Yvonne and ds}}} Sounds like you have a nasty neighbor. Thats a hard one to live with because their always there.

I know today is bad sweetie, just remember tomorrow will be another day and you can put this thing behind you. I'm sorry for you ds.

You know I don't tell everyone myself, because it's kinda ackward, but I do plan to put some awareness mag's on my car. Not to label my kids, but to just spread the word... and hey if they put two and two together, so be it.

Lainie

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Registered: 06-25-2003
Sat, 08-25-2007 - 5:49pm

(((((((Yvonne and Joe)))))))))


I'd let the air out of her tyres!


No I wouldn't.

-Paula

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Registered: 07-12-2005
Sat, 08-25-2007 - 8:49pm

Yvonne, you can come share my hole with me. It’s big enough for three and the mochas and nutty coffee are still on tap.


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