court today

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court today
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Wed, 02-06-2008 - 7:43pm

so xh & i went to court today ( and yesterday). it was over child support. xh stated that he only pays the court ordered amount of support. he has paid and will pay no extras.(even if the divorce agreement states that he pay the lion's share of unpaid medicals, sports, school etc.)


mothers of asd children have written that their sons "save" all their frenziness for mom. dad sees a well controlled child. xh stated that son is "happy, outgoing,socialable, popular, well adjusted boy who has receives stellar grades in school and conduct. and always has."

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Registered: 03-30-2003
In reply to: decson
Wed, 02-06-2008 - 9:59pm

Good luck. I've heard this story so many times. Even from the school we often hear "there's nothing wrong with her. The things you're describing, we just don't see them." Guess what - she saves it all for home. Same type of deal. And it sucks.

Let us know how you make out. Hopefully the judge will have done her research.



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Registered: 03-27-2003
In reply to: decson
Wed, 02-06-2008 - 10:40pm

Oh, I hope things go well for you.

                                

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Registered: 02-24-2004
In reply to: decson
Wed, 02-06-2008 - 11:15pm

Good Luck!!