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|Mon, 10-11-2010 - 10:03am|
I am so livid and it keeps building. This may get long...! Backround. My step mother and I have never gotten along. Our personalities just dont click. She is condesending when she talks to me and always has been, she makes me feel less than I am or at least tries to. So anyway, when I had Dylan I made it clear to the family that she is by no means his grandma. She and I do not have a relationship, and she treats me like dirt on her shoe. She will not be referred to as grandma. Obviously it caused a bunch of drama, but I thought that it was finally accepted. I thought that my wishes would be respected. Stupid me.
Dylan stayed the weekend with my dad and the step bitch. No big deal, I was fine with it. Never thought that they would go against my wishes. I go to pick him up, we met at a gas station off the interstate. When they were saying thier goodbyes, both dad and step-B referred to her as grandma. "give grandma a hug" "say by to grandma" blah blah. Being that I was outraged, in public, and had Dylan right there, I didnt say anything. I didnt want to go through it all with Dylan right there. I am still fuming. I will address it, I will call and go through all of this drama again. I dont know how I am going to handle it, but I am so furious I have to handle it.
And again she gave me unsolicited "advice" in her condesending way. Its hard enough being a mom, you dont need someone talking down to you like that.