I HATE DTD!

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Registered: 06-19-1999
I HATE DTD!
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Wed, 04-06-2011 - 7:10pm

I'm not happy about it.

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iVillage Member
Registered: 09-22-2004
In reply to: dmj2
Wed, 04-06-2011 - 7:31pm

ME TOO! I hate it! I kinda feel sorry for DH. It hurts and it is completely uncomfortable! ugh.

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Registered: 03-18-2011
In reply to: dmj2
Wed, 04-06-2011 - 8:57pm

im kinda new at this and not familiar with any abbreviations...

what is DTD and DH?

thanks alot anyother abrreviations you know would help me!

iVillage Member
Registered: 09-22-2004
In reply to: dmj2
Wed, 04-06-2011 - 9:13pm
DTD = doing the deed (sex).
DH = Dear husband
iVillage Member
Registered: 10-02-2003
In reply to: dmj2
Wed, 04-06-2011 - 10:56pm
I enjoy it (for now) but DH is totally freaked out so our frequency has dropped to an unbelievably all time low. I keep trying to explain there's no logical fear of 'poking an eye out' or hurting me or the baby but he's still worried about it. I had the OB tell him it was fine but one of the damn dad's books I got him also mentioned some men have these concerns and he's sticking with that. Otherwise he's being very loving and supportive.

Melissa
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Registered: 03-04-2008
In reply to: dmj2
Thu, 04-07-2011 - 12:11am

Last time we did it, it was really uncomfortable for me.

baby
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Registered: 09-19-2008
In reply to: dmj2
Thu, 04-07-2011 - 12:31am
It isnt uncomfortable yet, but after i get mine, i feel like my chest is caving in and i cant breathe. Luckily dh doesnt last too much longer :)
But we rarely get to do it so i deal. Between being so d@mn tired and a 2 year old ds that never sleeps, we get what we can take.
 Baby Birthday Ticker Ticker
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Registered: 12-29-2010
In reply to: dmj2
Thu, 04-07-2011 - 3:27am

DTD = Doing the Deed

DH = Dear Husband

I think I remember reading that around 23 weeks things start to return to normal in the sex drive department and it's not so uncomfortable any more due to more lubrication. Only a couple of weeks to go!

iVillage Member
Registered: 06-19-1999
In reply to: dmj2
Thu, 04-07-2011 - 3:41am
I'm the one who is paranoid the baby will get hurt. I know it's fine, but I can't help it. I'm sure that's the whole reason it's a turn off to me. Looking forward to the closeness to dh, without the baby belly in the way...but not looking forward to birth control again, lol

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Registered: 05-16-2003
In reply to: dmj2
Thu, 04-07-2011 - 6:59am

I feel the same way!!

Gina

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