NO sex drive.....

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Registered: 07-07-2006
NO sex drive.....
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Sat, 04-23-2011 - 11:45pm

This is a new one for me. I've had all the symptoms in the books thus far I think. I feel so baaaad for DH but I don't even like to think of sex! I have to admit when we have dtd the "ending" was, well, awesome moreso than normal. I just have the HARDEST time bringing myself to give in to it, yuck. I'm trying to push through and "suffer" for dh but it's awful. Sure hope this passes for his sake! Oh plus I'm having trouble sleeping even though I'm whooped. Anyone else?

Jill, mommy to Chloe, almost 5, Oliver, 3 & baby Ella born 12-1-11 !
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Registered: 04-18-2011
Sat, 04-23-2011 - 11:57pm
I haven't had this problem in the past, but I've heard a lot of others say they have so I think it must be pretty common. I'd tell you to have a glass of wine and relax but..... lol! Maybe it will pass with the 1st tri.
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Registered: 05-16-2007
Sun, 04-24-2011 - 8:08am
yes! 0 sex drive. DH is asking almost daily. I am SUUUUUUUUUUUPER moody this time around too. like major beotch to him. So, I really have no desire. lol. I am not really sick, but super tired and get random headaches. I also am having trouble sleeping!
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Registered: 03-22-2011
Sun, 04-24-2011 - 8:12am
I am so moody! Its to the point that I don't even want him rubbing my belly. I had finally gave in after almost two weeks of no sex and let me tell u lol I had the best sleep ever that nite !!!
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Registered: 05-24-2004
Sun, 04-24-2011 - 7:00pm
My DH is not happy with my RE for banning us from any for a few weeks. He wants to make sure everything is progressing fine first since I am considered high risk since I got pregnant on injectables.
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Registered: 07-07-2006
Sun, 04-24-2011 - 8:53pm

Thanks for the reassurance ladies. Sure hope it doesn't carry on into the 2nd trimester! All the loving we did to get this babe now look at us. I feel so bad! Come baaaaack libido! :)

Jill, mommy to Chloe, almost 5, Oliver, 3 & baby Ella born 12-1-11 !