My husband decided to leave us Friday.
Kim, I'm so sorry to hear about your situation. :( It's never fair to blame one person in the marriage for all of your problems. It sounds like he's got some deeper issues he's working through and not talking to you about them certainly isn't helping. Do you have family or friends nearby that can help you out while you're supposed to be on best rest? I know it doesn't solve anything but it would at least give you a chance to maybe
I'd say he needs to get those meds checked pretty fast. I'm sure that isn't helping whatever underlying issues your marriage is already having. I'm not going to judge you or him for what you've posted. However, it sounds like you need some new friends and godparents. If they are not reaching out to you to help you or, at minimum get both sides, they are NOT interested in helping your situation and should be avoided. I would just tell people that unless they're offering help, you don't need them to call/text because you don't need to know what's being said.I would suggest that from here on out, you only tell the children that Daddy needs some time to think about his choices. They don't need to know about police, hospitals or even where he is if he's not telling them himself.I wonder if you'd qualify for any assistance or if you'd have to wait to be declared legally separated. If your Dr has ordered you to stay off your feet, then you can't really work.If things settle down and you are interested in saving your marriage but not interested in traditional marriage counseling, I highly recommend Retrovaille through the Catholic church. You do not have to be Catholic and they won't turn you away if you can't pay.
((((( Hugs )))))) Kim, I am sooo sorry to hear this,
Kim, I am so sorry you are going through this right now.
Kim, I am so, so sorry for what's happening right now.