My husband decided to leave us Friday.
Oh my gosh, I could simply copy and paste your post as my own.
Proud mama of Tiffany(10), Nathan(9),
Kim, I am so, so sorry for what's happening right now.
Kim, I am so sorry you are going through this right now.
((((( Hugs )))))) Kim, I am sooo sorry to hear this,
I'd say he needs to get those meds checked pretty fast. I'm sure that isn't helping whatever underlying issues your marriage is already having. I'm not going to judge you or him for what you've posted. However, it sounds like you need some new friends and godparents. If they are not reaching out to you to help you or, at minimum get both sides, they are NOT interested in helping your situation and should be avoided. I would just tell people that unless they're offering help, you don't need them to call/text because you don't need to know what's being said.I would suggest that from here on out, you only tell the children that Daddy needs some time to think about his choices. They don't need to know about police, hospitals or even where he is if he's not telling them himself.I wonder if you'd qualify for any assistance or if you'd have to wait to be declared legally separated. If your Dr has ordered you to stay off your feet, then you can't really work.If things settle down and you are interested in saving your marriage but not interested in traditional marriage counseling, I highly recommend Retrovaille through the Catholic church. You do not have to be Catholic and they won't turn you away if you can't pay.