How many visitors will you have after baby?
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|Mon, 06-20-2011 - 4:06pm|
I haven't had a baby for 15 yrs and so not used to all the attention that having a baby brings (esp DH's first and prob only). I am sort of anxious about all these people wanting to bombard us when baby gets here (prob another reason i don't want baby coming early). SIL actually had the nerve to ask me if she could be at my L&D (i am not really close with her at all). I said NO WAY (laughing). I only want DH there. I honestly may not call anyone until i am late in labor (or i will call my mom and sister and tell them don't tell anyone). no one will be in L&D with me besides DH but i don't want 30 people waiting outside either. (DH family already was like " do you mind if we are in waiting room?") I am going to try and breast feed and don't want all the distractions..I can imagine what first 2 weeks will be at my house. I will tell people to go home if they overstay their welcome and we are exhausted. DH will be home for some time (10 days to 12 days depending on when baby gets here) so at least i won't be alone.What's everyone else's plans? I wish i could tell people not to come over but i know DH family and my little family is so excited and they would think its rude to keep people away.