Just a "tiny" bit of man bashing
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|Wed, 04-27-2011 - 5:35pm|
I don't normally like to do this, but my SO made me soooo mad last night and I need to vent! So, the man likes to fish. I accept that. However, so far this year, he's been about 6 times and the lakes only been totally thawed for about 3 weeks, so you do the math. Anyways, yesterday I get a text from him at 4:00 saying "Going fishing wih Bobby after work.". Bobby is his best friend and a super nice guy, so that's not the issue. The issue is that I'm annoyed that he doesn't even ask. No, I'm not his mother, but I am pregnant and have two other kids to take care of. Would have been nice to at least been asked, but nope, he just went.
So, I take the oldest to soccer, go grocery shopping, make dinner, do homework and showers and sit down at 7:15 to realize that SO wasn't back yet. I text him, he says 30 more minutes. I wait until 8 to remind him that the kids are going to bed and they haven't even seen him yet today. No response. I keep the kids up until 8:30 and he's still not home and hasn't called or anything. So, I put the kids to bed and go to sleep myself. He pulls in around 8:45 and I haven't spoken to him since.
Am I being childish? Probably. But when the heck do I ever get to just say "Hey, I'm going here. You take care of the kids and everywhere they need to go and everything they need to do and I'll just be home when I feel like it."??? Annoying.