Having a hard time...

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Registered: 06-22-2008
Having a hard time...
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Tue, 11-09-2010 - 7:01pm

Ever since I found out I was pregnant I've had a hard time accepting that everything will be ok. and that I'm actually pregnant. It just feels like it's too soon after my last misscarriage to be pregnant again. and for some reason even though the test were DEFINATLY positive and that's not what I'm doubting, I just feel like it's more likely that it's a fluke. Has anyone else had this problem with a pregnancy

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Registered: 11-28-2007
Tue, 11-09-2010 - 7:19pm

What you are feeling is totally normal after a loss. I wonder if you have posted on the pregnant after loss board?
Being able to embrace and enjoy your pg is hard to do after suffering m/c you tend to spend a lot of time looking for things 'not right' or waiting for the bubble to burst .You are not alone I felt that through each of my 4 pg
I f you havent posted over on PAL I would definitely recommend it all the ladies there know exactly how you are feeling and are super supportive .http://forums.ivillage.com/t5/Pregnant-after-a-Loss/ct-p/iv-ppaftermisc


(((((hugs))))) to you

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Registered: 10-22-2009
Tue, 11-09-2010 - 7:25pm

I think it is more likely that most women who have had a m/c whether it was 2 months or 2 years ago feel the same way you do.

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Registered: 03-27-2008
Tue, 11-09-2010 - 8:59pm

I'm sorry you are having such a hard time.

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Registered: 06-22-2008
Tue, 11-09-2010 - 10:56pm

Thank you all very much. =] It's just so weird to me to think I would be blessed enough for this to happen so soon. However my husband has been back home since sunday and things might be going much better there as well. So hopefully this is all good. =]

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Registered: 02-18-2005
Wed, 11-10-2010 - 2:12pm

I feel the same way.

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Registered: 11-09-2010
Wed, 11-10-2010 - 8:54pm

I had 2 miscarraiges and then 2 healthy pregnancies and I am totally in denial that everything is fine with this one.

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Registered: 09-30-2010
Thu, 11-11-2010 - 11:43am

I miscarried in October 2008 and had a positive test 3 months later. The entire first trimester was TERRIFYING for me. I was constantly worried I was going to lose him. And as TMI as it is, every time I felt any moisture or cramp or anything at all, I would RUN to the bathroom to make sure I wasn't bleeding. But, now he's a fat and healthy 14 month old!


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Registered: 06-22-2008
Sat, 11-13-2010 - 12:04am

I am the same way running to the bathroom everytime I think I feel something. I just had my misscarriage in august as well so it's so fresh in my mine

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