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when are you going to tell your family
| Sat, 11-20-2010 - 9:48am |
this is my 4th time being pregnant
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I am actually going to wait until I am 12 weeks to tell. First of all, I am older, and I want to make sure that everything is ok before I start telling everyone. Also, I really want the holidays to be all about DS this year. I have told my boss, Dh
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Everyone I know knows already... We're bad secret keepers LOL. But, honestly... they were all here with me through my miscarriage and without their support, I don't know what I would have done. It was so important to me. So naturally, I tell everyone immediately because they've proven they're here and wonderful through thick and thin!
I cant keep a secret and everyone already knows lol We just too excited and happy lol
I am with you , family is such great support through good and bad we tell everyone as soon as we can , were just to excited not to !! Plus we have so much going on with the family through the holidays and were Irish ( big drinkers , lol ) so they would notice when I am not enjoying the holiday cheers with them all anyways , lol this way it is out in the open and I can enjoy my gingerale with out gettting odd looks ~
the only person who knows right now is my bff...she knew we were ttc + she also told me about the fertility friend website (which was a HUGE help for us).
We are not sure yet--this is #3 for me and also my 3rd pregnancy so I just can't trust that it will actually happen--I told my Dh that we should go ahead and tell b/c it is not like we won't tell them either way but he is still hesitant--My mom actually told me last night that she dreamt I was pregnant! and I was like "oh my goodness..."
We haven't told anybody yet except my bil and his wife and her brother and wife.
Well I told my family last night but we are still going to wait on Dhs family. My sil wedding is Dec 4th so we will probably tell after that!
A few people in my circle know - my mom, my IL's and SIL, my BFF and her boyfriend and my boss (plus a couple of extras at work who figured it out from me being so sick).