Have you given any thought as to who will be in the delivery room with you?
I agree Katie we are doing the same thing... MIL dont agree with it says its HER grandbaby she has the right to be there asap... blah whatever..
Mine is a planned csection (god willing she wont try to make her own plans) So just me and dh luckily... We dont want any visitors til alot later in the day if its a morning csection.. Heck i would be happy til wait til day 2 for visitors.. I remember my last csection i felt like crap the whole first day and didnt wanna see anyone... just wanna make sure i recover nicely and baby is ok and we have our bonding time before anyone else shows up...
Hubby and DD (17) will be in the room with me.
It really doesnt bother me to have people in the room, with my first we had alot of people there because no one in my family until me has ever had a vaginal birth, so my mom and grandma were there, and mil and sil becuase we are very close, and this time like that last two it will be open to my mom and mil if they are available. I go natural, and having people there calms me and keeps my mind off the pain. I think a hubby and wife should agree on it. It is the birth of both thier babies, but I think if one thinks it to be private affair, then they should have presedent. I do keep the visiters to just siblings after the baby is born though at the hospital and as long as dh is off work, which is usually not more than a couple days.
Just my DH.