I'm pretty sure but it will depend. Last time we had my mom with our eldest so we weren't worried about neither of us being there because he was with Mah-Mah. This time we have a plan for when I go into labor for either my neighbor or DH's best friend to be with the boys at a moments notice so he can be with me during labor and delivery. If we can do a VBAC then my mom may not be here right away. If she's not able to be here and I'm not in labor at night time then I think I would ask DH to go home and be with the boys for awhile til my mom gets there and come back to see me/bring the boys etc.
Absolutely! He wouldn't have it any other way. It's nice, I can get some rest. My in-laws live close and they'll take the kids for a few days.
DH definitely will be.
I am going to force my husband to stay with me. When I had DS I was single and my family left me in the hospital by myself the first night. One of the nurses made some rude comment to me and coupled with the hormones I cried