Sex? no thanks

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Registered: 10-12-2010
Sex? no thanks
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Fri, 09-16-2011 - 3:16pm

Is anyone else out there feeling like sex right now is just too much work?? Sometimes I don't even want to be touched or kissed. I feel bad! Anyone else??

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Registered: 12-14-2009
Sun, 10-02-2011 - 10:22am
:D Girl you speak my language! ;) I swear, men really can be worse than little children! Although my kids are giving any man a run for their money. They just came in from outside and my 12 year old daughter literally dropped her jacket within an inch of the chair, kicked off her shoes as she was walking down the hallway and took off her socks and left them on the couch (something she's famous for) before going upstairs. WTH?! It was going to take that much energy to walk the items to the closet on the way up the stairs? And why do they keep leaving cups all around the house?! I could go on and on and with being pregnant, this is making me have a nervous tick! ;)

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Registered: 06-27-2005
Sat, 10-01-2011 - 7:37pm
All DH has to do is breathe right now and I'm annoyed! I flipped out on him today because he left his stupid hat sitting out AGAIN. I put that hat away in the closet every single day - do you think he could have the courtesy to put it away just once? It takes 5 seconds! I swear he is worse than the kids!
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Registered: 12-14-2009
Sat, 10-01-2011 - 7:37am
LOL Sara! You know as I read your post I was thinking, I bet you money that as thrilling as it would be to have DH home for some sex, I bet if he actually was home for any length of time, I'd feel the same way. He already gets on my nerves over the phone! LOL Hormones are killer and I just don't think I could tolerate his dirty socks sitting 5 feet from the laundry hamper or him loosing his keys and wallet for the 100th time even after I told him over and over to keep them on the counter. :D

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Registered: 06-27-2005
Fri, 09-30-2011 - 11:28pm
I have very little desire... Even when I do, DH is on my nerves so bad that I won't initiate it anyway. I am sure it has everything to do with raging hormones, but I just have no tolerance for his crap right now! (For example: Him wearing muddy boots in our bedroom and bathroom the exact same day that I mopped and swept the floors - when I'm supposed to be on bed rest and HE should've been the one mopping and sweeping in the first place).
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Registered: 07-23-2006
Fri, 09-30-2011 - 5:49pm

Ok This is gonna sound horrible, DH and i are seperated but i want him all the time for whatever reason. I have a great BF and dont have the slightest interest in DTD or even having him touch me. I feel awful :( Lucky for me the BF has been doinf a board on what to expect and people told him it's normal so he's understanding but still

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Registered: 06-30-2004
Tue, 09-20-2011 - 9:03pm

I think becuase we having a boy this time around, my hormones are totally off. We are totally a 5-6 times a week typoe couple, and have been through all my previous preganncies, and I never waited the whole 6 weeks after having the girls. We havent had sex in 2 weeks. I just have no drive AT ALL!! Not to mention I am on modified bed rest and any kinda stimulation down there makes me have contractions. I have just given up...

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Registered: 01-26-2010
Tue, 09-20-2011 - 5:34pm

With my DD we had a lot of sex in the first and third tirmesters, with this one the poor guy has gotten any for about the last 6 months. I've had some preterm labor issues, and the one time we did do it, it was so painful I had to stop in the middle....sigh....frankly I'm ok with it, I'm working 85hours a week right now and taking care of a 3 year old on my days off so I could care less.

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Registered: 07-23-2009
Mon, 09-19-2011 - 12:52pm
On bedrest but would love to!! Lol

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Registered: 01-11-2008
Mon, 09-19-2011 - 10:52am

Oh i want to but i know DH is not all for it.

----"Never give up on something that you can't stop thinking about every second of every day."----

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Registered: 03-27-2003
Mon, 09-19-2011 - 10:19am

It's funny.

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