Marital trouble and divorce?
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Marital trouble and divorce?
| Mon, 07-11-2011 - 12:33am |
Hey girls..I never in my wildest dreams imagined I'd be posting this especially with a new baby
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I am sorry to hear about your situation.
~Jenn~
(((Hugs))). I'm sorry you're going through this. Pregnancy can be a stressful time and it can put a strain on the strongest relationship. I second the PPs suggestion of counseling. If you're not able to communicate effectively with each other, then a neutral third party make help you to do that. It's certainly worth a shot before you start seriously talking divorce.
I don't know if this will make you feel any better but my DH and I hit a MAJOR bad patch right after DD was born. The stress of being new, over anxious parents, coupled with no sleep meant we really neglected our relationship and were frankly vile to each other for months. I was sooooo close to leaving (only the fact that I had vowed before God to stay with him for better or worse kept me there). BUT, we did seek help and 2 years on we are more in love than ever and very happy together.
More (((Hugs))). I hope you're able to get back on track.
I'm sorry your husband is acting that way.
(((HUGS))) I'm sorry you're going through such an awful, heartbreaking time.
I read somewhere once that you should never make major decisions regarding divorce during pregnancy/several months post-pardum.
I agree with the other posters. Talk to him and ask him flat out if he's in or out. Try going to counseling and seeing if it helps. He needs to be supportive of you during this time with everything you've got going on. ((HUGS)) I hope something changes soon for you guys!