My sister wants to get pregnant, what a nightmare!(long)
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|Sun, 05-08-2011 - 11:03am|
My younger sister is 38 yrs old. She has not been the best mother. She has relied on others to take care of her children by the time they are 1 week old on. She also has to have a high life style, so even though she is a public school teacher, with a husband who has been mostly unemployed their entire marriage, she has to have luxury SUVs with all leather interior, which she cannot drive anything older than 2 or so years old so she is always trading them in. She will not allow her children to even wear handmedowns, from themselves. They have to have entire new wardrobes each season. But she cannot afford any of it so our parents buy it all for her. (then blame me, she claims she has to keep up with me and the people in the town I live in as I live in a wealthier town, but no one I know here does this). With her other children, I used to get calls all the time that I have to give her money, even though we are not made of money. I would get told because I am just sitting around all day doing nothing (I am a SAHM, hardly sitting around doing nothing), I need to take care of her children. Her children would be in daycare all day (paid for by our parents) and then picked up at the end of the day by our parents or her inlaws or someone else. Fridays, they would be picked up by our parents often and then passed off to her inlaws later in the day Saturday and she would get them back Sunday nights. But she was off work by 2-3pm and the daycares did not close until 6:30pm. My sister does not do drugs or anything, she is just very spoiled and in to herself and just expects everyone else to do for her. Now, at this point, our parents would not be capable of taking care of the new baby is she has one. Our dad has dementia and our mom just is incredibly lazy and disabled.