OT: Child Support
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|Thu, 05-12-2011 - 9:55am|
Aaaaa! So, my ex-husband stopped paying child support in October basically. His employer refuses to respond to wage garnishment letters from the state attorney general's office, he doesn't respond to collection notices, and the attny gen's office is doing NOTHING. I keep talking with the enforcement folks and it's always... well, we have to send out another notice then wait 30 days, then after 20 million notices we will refer the case over to legal who will look it over to see if there is anything they can do, but they'll first call him employer a few times and call him to see why he's not paying. He doesn't wanna! He doesn't think he should have to! That's why people!
And the kicker... the ex-husband has filed for a modification of child support, which means that he is in contact with the attny generals office. Well, wouldn't these "conversations" on why he isn't paying a part of what they ask when they have him on the phone... They keep telling me, "maybe, but probably not."
Seriously?! What is wrong with the world that people think they acn go around having child, then be completely free of any responsibility to that child after the divorce. He doesn't use visitiation (thank god!) but still... it's your damn kid too.
I would happily file for abondonment/adoption to dh, but I have to wait until June 1st to even start filing that paperwork. What a loser.