DH just seems to be
OH I totally get that...I was put on bedrest because I was having a lot of pelvic pressure and started having contractions early on and DH just doesnt seem to understand that I can't be the one to clean my entire house every day..I just can't do it..When Im on my feet more than 20 minutes my legs swell and I start cramping..I can't handle the mess most days so I just leave and come back when he's finally cleaned it up..I do what I can but its not worth risking the health of my baby over.This has just been compounded by the loss of my mother..Im still not eating well and it just seems that little Autumn is doomed to arrive early..I hope all the husbands buck up and look at the big picture!
Yep! My DH is aggravating the crap out of me lately! He's not helping out around the house at all and now that I'm on bedrest for atleast the next 2 weeks, I'm afraid of what my house is going to look like! I mean when I left Friday morning for my surgery, ALL the dishes were done and the house was clean (not spotless, but clean!) and I get home last night and the sink is full of dishes, there are dirty pots and pans all over the stove and the playroom is a freaking disaster! (not to mention the kids bedrooms!) I know I have to let it go for right now, especially since I dont want this baby to come this early, but it just makes it harder to just lay here when I see all this other stuff that needs to be done! UGH!