Advice on how to help a teen struggling with adoption.
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|Sat, 04-07-2012 - 9:48pm|
I personally haven't adopted but would love to adopt oneday. My husband and i have talked about adopting oneday as I was told no more children. But we have three healthy boys so right now we are doing what we can to raise them. I need some advice on helping a teen who seems to have attached herself to me. We have known this family forever. I remember when she was adopted and her family choosing not to tell her. It wasn't my place so i prayed things would go smooth because i knew this family would love her just as they did their own children. And they have loved her and provided for her. Well through some circumstances this young lady found out by mistake that she was adopted. Well i say mistake but maybe it was meant to be. Let's just say she found out publicly and she was disturbed and went through lots of feelings. She was then shown a picture of her mother but told the mother is now married and doesn't want to meet her. She is not doing well with this. Everyone thinks she is but what she is saying to me and the guidance counselors at her school tell me she isn't. Her mom doesn't know she is talking to