New and in need of some answers!!!

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Registered: 02-22-2009
New and in need of some answers!!!
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Thu, 09-30-2010 - 4:08pm

Hello everyone,



Just stumbled across this message board today...I have been on the IF Support board for quite some time, but never knew this one exsisted until now!

Finally pregnant after 3 yrs of ttc and 3 losses. Lilypie Pregnancy tickers EDD: 9/18/11
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Registered: 12-03-2009
Thu, 09-30-2010 - 5:33pm

Hi Megan,

I am new here too but I still wanted to welcome you and say it is great that you got to provide a loving home for the twins.

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Registered: 03-26-2003
Thu, 09-30-2010 - 10:33pm

Hi Megan!

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Registered: 12-13-2002
Fri, 10-01-2010 - 3:05pm
Hi,

The things a judge will look at are of he was inlvoved supportive during the pregnancy and in their lives-- both of which seem like big fat no's.
The fact that he'll be in jail for another 4 or so years (is that right) also makes it highly unlikely that he'd have a shot.
I wouldn't worry too much...BUT I would make sure you have a lawyer.

Also-- I'd write him a very honest and from the heart letter. This is what we did with Riley's b-dad.
He was VERY against the adoption and also in prision. He was refusing to sign and sooo sooo against it.
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Registered: 02-22-2009
Wed, 10-06-2010 - 1:20pm

Thank you Ladies for your responses!!!

I wanted to write back earlier, but as you know, the board was down and wouldn't allow me.

Finally pregnant after 3 yrs of ttc and 3 losses. Lilypie Pregnancy tickers EDD: 9/18/11
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Registered: 01-19-2007
Wed, 10-06-2010 - 4:01pm

What agency did you use? I am doing research for my daughter and she is trying to find an agency.