I am new here -- I decided to forgo the ttc website msg board of which I have been a regular part for over a year. I have recurrent m/c's and am nearing the end of trying to conceive a child. DH and I considered IVF, but because we have a limited amount of $ to work with, we are a little apprehensive because of my history of m/c. I don't know if I can spend all of that money only to have me m/c at 7-8 wks. Adoption is a very logical choice. I know emotionally it is probably more taxing, but at least I can't m/c.
I would love to know how you began the process -- from the decision to choosing which way to go. We are very interested in international. But the cost is so high although you don't have to worry about someone trying to get their baby back.
Can someone tell me about the foster programs? Is it easy to get infants and small toddlers?
All info welcome.