OMG! I completely agree. This woman would not be a positive influence in any way. I'm sorry to hear this though. I'm sure it's very disapointing and frustrating.
On the other hand - 3 year olds? Already?! Congrats and they couldn't be more adorable. LUL! Tiff
I wouldn't start a relationship with her at this time.
WOW! I can't believe the boys are almost 3!! I too agree that this is NOT the time to open up the relationship with the bgrandma. She doesn't sound like she wants to do anything more than create stress. let "J" be the one to relate anything about the boys to her. Just file her email away (in the Trash!!) and keep on doing what your've been doing with YOUR boys!
Thanks Tiffany for the support, a small part (very small) was afraid that i needed to suck it up and do this for the twins. But I don't think it would be positive at this point for them. I know I can't believe they are turning three this year! I just spoke to our agency last week for a question for a friend and she asked if we were ready for another! I always thought the boys would be it for us, but i have to tell you if I could afford it I would totally gives the boys a little brother or sister! Me who it took six years of marriage before we even decided we were ready to start ttc is now saying that she would have 3 kids! I can't even believe i just typed that and actually admitted that I want another baby! I think I posted a year ago that I was soooooooooo done, how things change in one year.