so angry at twins paternal gmom

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so angry at twins paternal gmom
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Tue, 10-05-2010 - 10:49pm

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Registered: 01-26-2009
Wed, 10-06-2010 - 7:32am

OMG! I completely agree. This woman would not be a positive influence in any way. I'm sorry to hear this though. I'm sure it's very disapointing and frustrating.

On the other hand - 3 year olds? Already?! Congrats and they couldn't be more adorable. LUL! Tiff

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Registered: 04-08-2003
Wed, 10-06-2010 - 8:05am

I wouldn't start a relationship with her at this time.

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Registered: 11-10-2004
Wed, 10-06-2010 - 8:22am

OH MY!!!!

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Registered: 07-05-2007
Wed, 10-06-2010 - 9:41am

Hi Danielle!!!

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Registered: 09-02-2008
Wed, 10-06-2010 - 11:49am

WOW! I can't believe the boys are almost 3!! I too agree that this is NOT the time to open up the relationship with the bgrandma. She doesn't sound like she wants to do anything more than create stress. let "J" be the one to relate anything about the boys to her. Just file her email away (in the Trash!!) and keep on doing what your've been doing with YOUR boys!

Claire

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Registered: 05-28-2007
Wed, 10-06-2010 - 9:22pm

Thanks Tiffany for the support, a small part (very small) was afraid that i needed to suck it up and do this for the twins. But I don't think it would be positive at this point for them. I know I can't believe they are turning three this year! I just spoke to our agency last week for a question for a friend and she asked if we were ready for another! I always thought the boys would be it for us, but i have to tell you if I could afford it I would totally gives the boys a little brother or sister! Me who it took six years of marriage before we even decided we were ready to start ttc is now saying that she would have 3 kids! I can't even believe i just typed that and actually admitted that I want another baby! I think I posted a year ago that I was soooooooooo done, how things change in one year.

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Registered: 05-28-2007
Wed, 10-06-2010 - 9:24pm
lol! i was so afraid that i would get the this is an open adoption speech from you! but agreed the motive is wrong and my mom always said if you do not have anything nice to say SAY NOTHING!

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Registered: 05-28-2007
Wed, 10-06-2010 - 9:26pm
Dee I soooooo was ready to call you when i got that email but my personal phone is DEAD with you number in it! When you get a chance shoot me an email with your cell so i can put it in my work phone until i get a new phone. I am protesting verizon since they now require data packages and i don't want to give them anymore of my money!

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Registered: 05-28-2007
Wed, 10-06-2010 - 9:30pm
Leah I just smile when i see your siggy and those two little boys! How old are the boys now? I just met a woman who is pregnant with twins today and she was asking me a ton of questions about how hard it will be. I told her i think the first year is so much easier then when they turn one and can start really moving then it goes all down hill from there!

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Registered: 05-28-2007
Wed, 10-06-2010 - 9:31pm
thanks claire! great idea I will send her to the trash bin on my email so i don't have to look at it anymore!

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