what can I say to DH?
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|Sat, 03-28-2009 - 7:58am|
The short of it is I need to have a response to something my DH is thinking and saying now.....
Yesterday my 15 month old girl sorta "helped herself to boob"....I was sitting with DH and my 2 girls in the playroom last night and I could tell she wanted to nurse.....she came up to me and started to climb onto me or up me ....just for being held ect...I was sitting with my legs cross on teh floor, well she grabbed the tank top strap and it stretched down and exposed what she was comming to me for in t he first place...this was definately by accident but I was not really paying attention because I was talking to DH and my 3 year old and somehow she ended up nursing on her knees all by herself and then I kind of snuggled her onto my lap.....now I brought attention to it thinking it was cute that she with help, helped herself....but then DH said "IT" ........"Isn't it time to wean now then? Pretty sure she will be asking for it by name......."......This is my first experience with nursing a toddler so I really did not know what to say to him other than no that is not a reason to wean and in any other country this is normal.....he always and did say "well we are not in another country and life moves to fast here to do that"
Am I at that point where she will start to help herself or ask? Is that ok? I kind of thought it was cute...in a funny way. I just enjoy nursing her and do not want to stop yet.