I hear you, I had to listen to other parents tell me how fast their kids learned or did something which I found to be 90%
ugh. bragging mamas are awful. normally I try to hang out with people who have babies several months different from mine so there's not as huge of a competition.
a good chunk of the time they are fibbing a bit i have found:) 99% of the time the kiddos will all reach each milestone in their own sweet time. and they are perfect!
try try try not to let it freak you out. it's so hard i know:)