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|Wed, 11-11-2009 - 7:11am|
so a friend of mine came over a few months ago and when she noticed i was wearing Vasilis she comented that her couzing who has a baby 3 months younger than mine, has "trained" her to stay in her bouncy. basically, she would only hold the baby when she was fed (by bottle) or being changed. she wasnt trying to tell me that my way was bad, she was just noting the different parenting styles.
well fast foward 3 months later...
the same friend came over and saw how i put down Vasilis to play with his toys while i made her tea. (i get nervous wearing him when making coffee or tea). she told me that her couzin's baby for the past month has refused to be put down. when someone trieds to put her down she screams bloody murder and turns all red.
i told her that i think because i alway hold Vasilis, now when i leave him for a couple minutes he is confident im coming back so he doesnt put up a fuss.
i told her her couzin should invest in a sling or wrap.
im glad that that baby is finally getting the attention she deserves but it must be quite a shock for a mom who was used to being so distant from her baby.