Sharing household chores

This is a topic that won't go away in our house. DD19 thinks that since she is in college and works a part time job, that she's good. She doesn't have to help. Her idea of "cleaning" the bathroom is picking up, but not using any cleaning products. LoL!!! So I know that we really need to keep working on this. DD10 has to have minute details when she is asked to do something. This one drives me nuts. And now their Gma is getting in on the subject and telling DH and I that we have DD10 do more than DD19 does and that DD19 is acting like a princess. Well Gma you didn't make them do anything when they lived with you, so this is what we get now. We are working on it, but being in a constant arguement about cleaning is not exactly a nice thing to be in. :0) So while we try to keep it fair it's not always easy.

Oh, you are so right. They play dumb about so much when it comes to chores!! Even DD10 does this too. Ugh!!!! hehehehehe We do the argue bit at times. it's just definately not fun.