Still on the rollercoaster..
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|Thu, 08-02-2012 - 8:22pm|
...that is OSD. I'm not sure if the peaks and valleys are just not as high and deep or if we are just getting better at holding on tight, but it doesn't seem as bad.
OSD moved out this summer. She's been in an apartment with one of her teammates (and teammates BF(that's another story)) at BM's BF's house (BM lives with her BF).
OSD wasn't able to go on vacation with us this past week and while we were away, she texted DH and said she needs to talk to him about her living arrangements. I've always figured that the only reason she would move home is if she had a big blow up with BM. Otherwise, she would stay there. Now that we are home, OSD has gone from I'm staying at Mom's to I'm moving back home tomorrow in three days.
We did have a good talk with her about what we expect now that she's home. Picking up after herself, keeping her bathroom clean, contributing to the rest of the household chores and just being a part of the family. She was actually really calm about it all and even agreed to give up her pet rabit. We have three cats and one is a major hunter, so we've always told OSD not until we don't have cats. I hate to see her loose her pet, but I don't want the poor thing killed by the cats either.
BM has found out about OSD moving back home and is calling and texting a ton. It may be a long night for us.
Sorry I've been away for so long. I have a new possition at work and it's really keeping me busy!!! I love it, but I don't get too much down time. I now run a department of 6 and manage a loan portfolio of almost 2500. We had a nice vacation. Went back to my home town for my neices wedding. Super hot there, but the wedding was nice and it was good for me to stay with my Mom and see how she is doing. I don't think she will ever be the same again, but I know she will manage. GBM is officially moved and she has finally started to build her new house. Major permit problems. DH and I had two wholes weeks all to ourselves last month. We worked a bunch of OT, but still had breakfast out together each weekend, went for walks, and on a four wheeler trip. It was terrific!!!!
I hope you all have been doing well!!!