Teens and Tatoos

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Teens and Tatoos
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Wed, 10-19-2011 - 2:16pm

Your teenage daughter wants a tattoo.

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iVillage Member
Registered: 12-12-2007
Thu, 10-20-2011 - 2:06pm
When you can afford to support yourself and still afford a tatoo, then you can decide if you'd like a tatoo.
KRISTIE
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Thu, 10-20-2011 - 5:53pm

A few things I think is......no tatoos until you are an adult....and remember your brain continues to grow andn isn't an adult until the age of 25!

iVillage Member
Registered: 12-12-2007
Fri, 10-21-2011 - 2:03pm
DD19 has been wanting a tatoo for a while now. She knows we don't like the idea so a week or so ago she puts on facebook "piercing or tatoo?" and a bunch of us said neither (she got all kinds of razzing over this one) and my sister said remember it won't look the same at 50. Then one lady that works at her old HS says "I"m 50 and my tatoos look great". I couldn't believe she stepped in and said that to someone elses kid!!! And she works with teenager all day long. Not exactly what I'd say is a good influence.
KRISTIE
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Fri, 10-21-2011 - 9:05pm

I just saw a news segment on tatoo

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Fri, 10-21-2011 - 9:19pm

I just saw this and it just sickens me.....what are we teaching our young girls.....

What do you think about Barbie's new ink?

http://www.ivillage.com/tokidoki-barbie-has-tattoo/6-a-394735?ice=iv:mb:msg:js

iVillage Member
Registered: 12-12-2007
Sat, 10-22-2011 - 5:31pm
DD10 is almost done with Barbies. I won't be getting her one of these!!
KRISTIE
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Registered: 06-06-2002
Sun, 10-23-2011 - 6:08pm

It's against DH and DD's religion to have a tattoo as it means they are not clean (so as a consequence can never pray or go on pilgrimage)

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Mon, 10-24-2011 - 8:18pm

Now that is interesting Moss!

iVillage Member
Registered: 02-22-2011
Thu, 10-27-2011 - 5:50pm

I don't want my teens to lie and go behind my back, much like how my parents felt about me and my siblings getting tattoos (and piercings)

My parents' rules were:

No piercings (besides the ones we got as babies) until we were 13 and ONLY the ear

No other piercings until we were 18 and could afford it

Not tattoos until we were 18 and could afford it.

It really gave us time to think about it, that and my parents didn't tell me NO, they just said we will have a time to get one. When the time came, they made sure we went somewhere that was clean! Not some backdoor jobs where they use drug needles sterilized by lighter flames, disease and infection all over the place.

I want my kids to know that tattoos are a BIG decision. Sure you can remove them, but it is very painful and will scar you for LIFE. The tattoo is gone, the scar is there. I got my first tattoo at 18 on my lower abdoment (so it is covered up in a bikini) and I do plan on getting more. I personally enjoy it. As long as it's not something random and stupid (like my name, why do people feel the need to tattoo their own names??!!)

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Registered: 08-25-2000
Fri, 10-28-2011 - 4:22pm

Great thoughts!

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