12 year old daugher wants to date 15 year old
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|Wed, 06-25-2014 - 6:06pm|
What am I going to do with my daugher? She just turned 12 in May. The boy she likes will be 16 this fall.
At the end of May I told her No to dating him. She said okay and asked if they could be friends. I didn't think it would hurt so I said ok. Two weeks later, he is always around and I am told that they have become very touchy-feely with each other in public when out with friends. So at this point I sat both of them down, my daughter as well as the boy, and told them again that they could not date. I get the Okay from both of them. At this point I am not so naive as to think they are listening so I put a rule in place that they have to be with a group of people or in the living room of my home if they want to hang out. They say okay.
My daughter comes to me today and tells me that she has been lying to me and that they have been dating for weeks and she loves him. I told her she will not see him again.
On top off all this I find out she has been taking bad pictures on her phone. I fould them a few days ago when looking thru it. I don't think she sent them to anyone but She has had her phone taken away since then. I am worried and I don't know what to do
I told her she could not date him because of the age difference. I tried to explain about majurity levels and different things. We had the birds and bees discussion as well. All I get from her is that she loves him. He is the only one for her. She will die without him.