Think I am gonna cancel Turkey day here...............

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Think I am gonna cancel Turkey day here...............
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Tue, 11-15-2011 - 7:18am

I just plain don't feel like doing it all !!!!

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bunny41 wrote:

I just plain don't feel like doing it all !!!!

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I don't think you're being bad Bunny,
But my question is what will you do on that day?




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I truly understand Glenda!!!

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Hugs..I would just sit home & do NOTHING...have NO desire to go out for Turkey day.....NONE...it is a crazy zoo out there !!! Rather lay on the sofa & watch old re-runs !

DD#1 does Easter......DD#2 does Christmas...DD#3 would do all the holidays, if she could....she lives w/her inlaws..& has no room !...I KNOW DD#3 is gonna say...she will cook everything here, for me.....I don't want anybody here....just tired & feel lousy !!!
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I would see my family on other days during Thanksgiving. For us , it does not matter to have it exactly on that day. We usually see my swh family, then my family on weekends.
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bunny41 wrote:
Hugs..I would just sit home & do NOTHING...have NO desire to go out for Turkey day.....NONE...it is a crazy zoo out there !!! Rather lay on the sofa & watch old re-runs !

DD#1 does Easter......DD#2 does Christmas...DD#3 would do all the holidays, if she could....she lives w/her inlaws..& has no room !...I KNOW DD#3 is gonna say...she will cook everything here, for me.....I don't want anybody here....just tired & feel lousy !!!

I understand Bunny,
When do you plan on telling everyone?
Let us know what they say when you do :)





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I understand how you feel, Bunny.

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BUNNY...Oh, gosh, I so understand how you must be feeling. I reached my can't do it anymore about two years ago. Fortunately, my DD2 does our holidays at her home now. DD1's home is too small, so we pitch in with foods. Holidays don't have to be on the actual day. Many times we've had ours the day after or even longer. One Christmas, we had it a whole month later for that was the only time we all could get together. With divorce and other families and remarriage and other families there and with inlaws and such, it's complicated sometimes; but we manage and when we do get together, it's the best!! It's always a huge bonus when we can have it on the actual holiday day!

With you, though, things are different now. You're not feeling well enough to do it, so don't. Your kids know you're not feeling well, so either they will take over or it won't happen. Tell them nicely and let them figure out how they want to do it. The baton has been passed!!

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bunny41 wrote:

I just plain don't feel like doing it all !!!!

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bunny41 wrote:

I truly understand Glenda!!!

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