Who is Calmer?

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Registered: 10-07-2008
Who is Calmer?
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Sat, 02-11-2012 - 7:55pm

Just wondering when something exciting or something unexpected happens...who is calmer about it....

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Registered: 10-07-2008
Mon, 02-13-2012 - 5:23pm

looks like it is equal sharing of calm for you and dh

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Registered: 03-08-2005
Mon, 02-13-2012 - 5:17pm
bunny41 wrote:

I think I am calmer & quicker to react.

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Registered: 03-08-2005
Mon, 02-13-2012 - 5:15pm

c dh is usually calmer

If it is about my health he gets nutso about me taking my meds at time...like i will die if they are a few minites late.

I panic about finances. dh says ...oh we will live through it. well i pay the bills and i worry

when it comes to family stuff it can be both of us. dh is the one that calls or texts the kids if we dont hear from then in a while

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Registered: 10-07-2008
Mon, 02-13-2012 - 3:02pm

Glad he is a calm person.

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Registered: 04-04-2007
Mon, 02-13-2012 - 12:34pm

morris definitely, i go crazy and he takes everything in stride.

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Registered: 07-09-2001
Mon, 02-13-2012 - 10:45am

dh is usually calmer in most circumstances.





 




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Registered: 01-18-2003
Sun, 02-12-2012 - 5:43pm
wolfiesrule wrote:
neverstopping wrote:
wolfiesrule wrote:
neverstopping wrote:

Just wondering when something exciting or something unexpected happens...who is calmer about it....

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Registered: 10-07-2008
Sun, 02-12-2012 - 5:07pm
another interesting view of who is calmer.
My swh is more calmer than me.
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Registered: 10-07-2008
Sun, 02-12-2012 - 5:03pm

Interesting on the reaction part ...I would be in a state.

I would be in a state in the desert, too.

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Registered: 10-16-2002
Sun, 02-12-2012 - 5:01pm

Yes, Donna, we did work well together.

If it wasn't for the drink ... and what I found out through his daughter five years into our marriage ... tho probably for the best, if he was sober he wouldn't do those things ... and the drink, he couldn't let go of.

I was with him whenhe died, he didn't know what was going on, I had to tell him... said he was going to heaven, going to God ... he gave up then, it was awful, not everyone goes with a with a body so still

our family is so screwed up

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