If it wasn't for the drink ... and what I found out through his daughter five years into our marriage ... tho probably for the best, if he was sober he wouldn't do those things ... and the drink, he couldn't let go of.
I was with him whenhe died, he didn't know what was going on, I had to tell him... said he was going to heaven, going to God ... he gave up then, it was awful, not everyone goes with a with a body so still
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looks like it is equal sharing of calm for you and dh
c dh is usually calmer
If it is about my health he gets nutso about me taking my meds at time...like i will die if they are a few minites late.
I panic about finances. dh says ...oh we will live through it. well i pay the bills and i worry
when it comes to family stuff it can be both of us. dh is the one that calls or texts the kids if we dont hear from then in a while
Glad he is a calm person.
morris definitely, i go crazy and he takes everything in stride.
dh is usually calmer in most circumstances.
My swh is more calmer than me.
Interesting on the reaction part ...I would be in a state.
I would be in a state in the desert, too.
Yes, Donna, we did work well together.
If it wasn't for the drink ... and what I found out through his daughter five years into our marriage ... tho probably for the best, if he was sober he wouldn't do those things ... and the drink, he couldn't let go of.
I was with him whenhe died, he didn't know what was going on, I had to tell him... said he was going to heaven, going to God ... he gave up then, it was awful, not everyone goes with a with a body so still
our family is so screwed up
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