How involved has your partner been
Hubby hasn't been to a prenatal appt since we were pregnant with Libby. His work schedule just doesn't allow it. He's upper management at a hotel and he's there far more than he's here.
However, he kisses my belly every morning, talks to the baby every night, and does keep tabs on how I'm feeling, what I need, etc. He even offered to do the weed trimming for me -- that's saying a lot because I don't know that he's ever used a weed trimmer in his life. I've always been the one to do anything and everything related to the house and the kids, and sometimes the cars depending on what the issue is. I'm super handy and very independent. Oh, and thrifty. LOL.
As long as he's in the delivery room, I'm all set. :)