What to ask of your dh?
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|Mon, 05-26-2014 - 4:58pm|
1. my dh and I are fighters. Idk why but we argue alot! Haha
2. I had a miscarriage about 7 months ago after we had been ttc our first for over 3yrs.
3. I am now pregnant again at just 5wks. I worry that I may have miscarried due to stress...
So my question is: is it selfish of me to basically want my dh to treat me like a queen right now? Haha
I mean...should he argue with me about stupid things or if I happen to say something he didnt like? I mean, I already had a mc you would THINK my dh would try his hardest to not upset me NO MATTER what I say or do...
But he isn't. He's just arguing w me like usual. He gets his usual sensitive self getting upset at the slightest things STILL.
And I don't think he REALLY KNOWS how I need to be treated esp carrying our baby!
I told him I was hungry and I am so afraid w getting hunger pains cuz it means the baby may be suffering. Yet what does he do? Stops at another store! Seriously? I needed to eat not wait longer for him.
And yet if I complain about it his response is well you know im tired n not feeling good w this sinus infection...umm...I need to eat cuz im growing a frickin baby so screw your allergies! Haha
So...am I completely wrong here? Should I not be mad that my dh STILL will argue w me n cause fights over stupid things? I think he needs to grow a backbone and if I say im hungry he needs to make sure I can eat. And I know im only 5wks but im entering some tough parts of the pregnancy w all the changes my body is going through...yet he'll sit there n be lke what's for dinner...
I feel like since im pregnant he should let me do n say whatever I want. Haha
Shouldnt me and our baby be NUMBER ONE? Shouldnt he go out of his way to make sure im happy and NOT stressed so I can focus on our baby?